How We Date Nowadays
12.01.2016 | 1:06
When men and women meet, get to know, ideally, they should gradually come to that, to see whether they really want to live with each other for life. The date can be long and many people fall in love, are in tune, but the one with whom we are ready to live life, in spite of everything, is always hard to find.
The way modern people date nowadays can be represented in five steps. Here they are.
«A man loves with his eyes.» He is attracted by the appearance, the physical body. Women are attracted to intelligent men. For a man, this stage is the launch before the takeoff. And he can reach the cloud 7 with her, jhe only needs a proper take-off.
The woman is interested in a man, regardless of appearance. If a woman is at this stage, she falls at first glance, then, it is necessary to urgently retire and meditate. Also, another reason to realize that the concept of «love at first sight does not exist appears on this stage. She should reconsider all these emotions in silence and solitude. This level is the foundation for future relations. Then the second stage starts.
That does not mean that you should have sex. In general, sexual contact, as we have noted above, comes after the mind and soul union. The man begins to doubt — do I need it? This happens: doubt, a little aloofness may be short-lived. We need a man to endure and continue the relationship, continue to care.
A woman needs to keep a deep calm in this phase. He drew his body, his eyes and no longer in a hurry. No phone calls, and the type of obsessions: how you treat me? Do you love me? And the more he is alienated, the stronger he will be attracted. It is important not to rush these stages. The man who is quickly captured, can get stuck in this stage, even after ten and fifteen years of marriage.the more he is alienated, the stronger he will be attracted. It is important not to rush these stages. The man who is quickly captured, can get stuck in this stage, even after ten and fifteen years of marriage.
The desire to be the only
The man has a desire to date this woman only, he desires to strengthen and deepen the relationship, learn more about her, to talk, etc.
The woman usually wants to get married. This is a trap for the woman: she is already beginning to feel like his wife unconsciously. Without passing all of these stages. And even if they get married, she will still feel robbed. That’s why you need to go through these steps again one by one.
Deep emotional connection
The two enter deeper and deeper into each other’s lives. It is here that they have to be themselves. That is to show all of the negative qualities, and all positive. It is necessary to learn about each other before sex, to show you as you are, to open up and not suppress the negative points. Wink what you really are. And if this step is performed safely, then the engagement before joining the family unit comes.
It’s not necessarily a real engagement with the rings that comes prior to wedding. It’s rather a psychological state of both. We must remember that there are a lot of people which we can fall in love with. But there are very few of those people whom we can live life with.
After these steps passed correctly, without losing a man, you can create a strong family unit. Yes, the union and not marriage. Marriage is just a word or formality, especially for people who can’t stand marriage.
After all the above steps people can be determined already, if he is a right man or if you’re willing to spend your life with him, no matter what, etc. It is already possible for this time to fall in love with in the highest sense. This is especially true of women. For a man, a launching first level, as we have noted is more essential. Let the man show initiative.
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