5 Reasons People Can’t Handle Marriage
29.12.2015 | 7:51
Now, for many people the family ceased to be the main value in life. Many of them believe that the family is a threat to individual freedom and makes us constantly suppressed in terms of desires and ambitions, etc. But people do not give up love and relationships. They just do not want to legalize them.
There are a number of reasons why people refuse marriage or can’t possibly handle marriage.
1. Many young people postpone family for years to come because they do not feel confident in the future. The reason for that is an unstable or unsatisfactory financial position which does not allow her or him to get housing and support the family, etc.
2. There are people that are very passionate about some particular activity. For example, business, tourism, dogs, etc. They are so fanatically obsessed with hobbies that they do not have time for a relationship that in turn, leads to the creation of a family. Also, these people fear that the family greatly hurts what they enjoy.
3. There are people who do not talk about marriage for a long time being in relationships, but, the reason may be the lack of confidence in their choice. One or both partners may simply exist in a relationship, expecting a better candidate for the role of the husband (wife).
4. The negative experience of the previous family relationships can significantly interfere with the creation of a new family. Divorced people are just afraid of the emotional pain that they experienced with the collapse of the previous marriage, even if a current partner is a perfect partner. Typically, this problem ceases to exist on the expiration of the time.
5. There are people who managed to create a certain material base, got housing and car, etc. However, they are immature to enter the marriage. Typically, these expects a person to enter an adulthood. The older people get, the harder they go to the dramatic changes in life. The same can be said about the marriage.
If you have one of these 5 reasons, you are probably a person that cannot handle marriage. You should take some measures of simply admit that marriage is not for you and release yourself.
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